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How To Choose A Memory Care Facility For Your Aging Parents

As our parents age, their healthcare needs may become more complex, especially if they develop memory-related conditions such as Alzheimer's disease or dementia.

Choosing a memory care facility that provides specialized care and support becomes essential to ensure their safety, well-being, and quality of life. Making this decision can be overwhelming, but with the right information and preparation, you can find a suitable memory care facility that meets your loved one’s needs.

In this guide, we'll walk you through the essential steps and provide some questions to ask when evaluating memory care facilities.

Assess the Staff-to-Resident Ratio

One of the crucial factors in a memory care facility is the staff-to-resident ratio. Inquire about how many caregivers are available to care for the residents.

A lower staff-to-resident ratio typically means more personalized attention and better care for your aging parent. More personalized care is essential for those who have constant needs.

Evaluate Staff Training

Ask about the training and qualifications of the facility's staff. Specifically, inquire about their expertise in handling memory-related issues, such as Alzheimer's and dementia care.

A well-trained team will have the knowledge and skills to support your loved one effectively. Staff with more training and more experience will know the best ways to comfort and care for their residents. Ensure you ask about ongoing training and certifications.

Ensure a Secure Environment

Memory care facilities should have security measures in place to prevent residents from wandering off or getting lost. Be sure to ask about the facilities security features and protocols such as:

  • Secured Entry & Exit points

  • Coded Doors/Gates

  • Secured/Enclosed facilities (like a fenced-in back patio & garden and dining areas)

  • CCTV and video surveillance

Explore Memory Care Programs and Activities

Engaging activities and programs are vital for the well-being of residents with memory issues. After all, you want your loved ones to enjoy their time at their residence as well. Ask about the types of memory-stimulating activities provided, such as cognitive exercises, art therapy, music therapy, and social interactions.

Ensuring the programs align with your parent's interests can enhance their quality of life.

Understand the Assessment Process and Personalized Care Plans

A reputable memory care facility will conduct a thorough assessment of each resident's individual needs and create personalized care plans accordingly.

Understand how the assessment is carried out and how frequently care plans are reviewed and updated to ensure your parent's evolving needs are met.

Inquire about On-Site or Nearby Medical Care

Having access to medical care is crucial in case of emergencies or health-related issues.

Inquire about the proximity of medical facilities and the availability of healthcare services on-site or nearby.

Clarify the Cost Structure and Services Included

Memory care can be a significant financial commitment. Make sure you understand the cost structure and what services are included in the fees.

Ask about any additional charges that may apply, such as specialized therapies or medication management.

Check Reviews and Testimonials

Read online reviews and seek testimonials from current or previous residents' families. Feedback from others can offer valuable insights into the facility's quality of care and overall reputation.

The best places to check for reviews include Google, Yelp, and Facebook.

Understand Visitation and Family Involvement Policies

Maintaining a strong connection with your parent is essential. Understand the facility's visitation policies and the opportunities for family involvement in your loved one's daily life.

Visitation policies that align with your own schedule and are more liberal are some things to consider when looking into these facilities.

Aging In Place

No one wants to think about the possibility of their parent's condition progressing beyond the facility's care capabilities. Understanding how a facility accommodates a change in care levels is crucial.

Aging in Place allows residents to remain where they are despite requiring additional care than what was originally needed - this is extremely beneficial to those suffering from Alzheimer’s/Dementia as a move/change in routine can be detrimental to them

Choosing a memory care facility for your loved ones requires careful consideration and research. By asking the right questions and understanding the specific needs of your loved one, you can make an informed decision that provides them with the compassionate care and support they deserve.

Remember to take notes during your visits and involve other family members in the decision-making process. Your parent's well-being and comfort should always be the top priority as you embark on this important journey of finding the best memory care facility for them.

At Metta Lifestyles, our defining philosophy is in our name. Metta means benevolence, loving-kindness, friendliness, and an active interest in others, which permeates into all our levels of care.

Our purpose-built environments provide a comforting and secure environment for those residents living with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia.

Come learn more about how Metta Lifestyles and our Metta Memory (Memory Care) facility can offer you or a loved one.


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